Clear Communicator

I was talking with a new young friend of mine. He has been in a relationship about a year and it's starting to get a little shakey. I realized that it is at that point when communication is crucial.

I was married a very long time. When issues came up, we didn't always address them. It seemed easier to put them up on a shelf to save for later. When issue after issue arises and year after year passes, those items on the shelf get dusty and cluttered. Sometimes its even hard to find them to bring them out into the light and study.

Do you have or have you ever been in a cluttered environment? It is mentally draining and chaotic--you just don't know where to begin to clean up the mess. The same applies in our relationships.

Communicate, clarify, clear it up now. If you want to hold on to what you have, your attitude needs to be, "let's get this done now". It's almost like time management and goal setting...tackle the hardest tasks FIRST!

Every one of us learns our lessons in our own different way. Each experience is there for the evolving of our consciousness. It may not seem pleasant to go through at the time, but we will learn and grow and everyone involved in it will be better on the other side of it.

Let's Live, Love, and Learn from one another. We are all in this together. We are all ONE!